Today our newest resource for parents, teachers and professionals - “Tickets – A Tool to Tame Behaviour” published by Quirky Kid is officially on sale!
This hand-held book of tickets is the first of it’s kind – A ‘Scratch and Win’ reward concept that is easily administered to children who achieve their pre-determined goal. Family experiences such as ‘a trip to the beach’ , ‘a bike ride’ or ‘a picnic in the park’ are all potential prizes for children who consistently demonstrate behavioural change. Parents no longer need to generate consequences with this step-by-step tool to tame behaviour for children aged 3-7 years.
Tickets are a complete reward system encouraging you and your child to work together to manage behaviour. Behaviour management is one of the most common issues we deal with at the Quirky Kid Clinic an this tool comes to assist parents with possible Behaviour interventions.
It encourages the development of a positive parenting style which in turn leads to pro-social behaviour as children mature. Research suggests the behaviour will improve when parents are clear about expectations and good behaviour is recognized immediately.
It is simple:
- Set a goal
- Give your child a ticket to acknowledge when the goal is achieved
- When your child collects enough tickets, he/she gets to scratch and win!
- Lastly, enjoy the fun and interactive reward activities together!
The Sunday Telegraph completed an article about our resource. You can read about it on The Telegraph online.
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Below you can find a FAQ about using “Tickets” by the author, Kimberley O’Brien, child psychologist at the Quirky Kid Clinic.
Q: Why did you create “Tickets”?
A: Parents often asked me for suggestions to encourage good behaviour without threatening their kids with consequences. I wanted to created something to engage children so they would be motivated to change, but I don’t advocate for material rewards. “Tickets” are inexpensive and they can be taken anywhere, as opposed to a fixed Star Chart on the kitchen wall.
Q: How often should I give a Ticket?
A: As soon as you observed the desired behaviour. If you have agreed to reward your child for “Saying ‘Excuse Me’ when Mum & Dad are talking,” then give your child a ticket as soon as this occurs. If they achieve 3 tickets in the first day, set a new goal and work your way through the ticket booklet.
Q: Should I take a Tickets away for bad behaviour?
A: No. Tickets should not be confiscated. This demotivates children when working towards future rewards.
Q: How do I know if the goals I set my child are age-appropriate?
A: Develop the goals with your child. They will tell you if they can do what you’re asking and it would be good to see a demonstration before you begin. For example, if you and your child agree it’s possible to “Come to the table when you’re called the first time” – Give your child a chance to show you it’s possible and then write down the goal.
Q: What about if the behaviour gets worse?
A: Ask for a professional opinion. Quirky Kid psychologists are available for Telephone or Skype consultations and would be happy to hear about individual cases.
You can submit your questions to http://therapeuticresources.com.au/contact/